I'd also say that it's none of their business. I know some players love to talk about what their character is thinking. I like that. Like I'll say "Oh yeah, I know it's a trap. But Agrippa is willing to bet his troops on your generosity."
But to STOP the scene? No.
Get over the suspicion, people. Twinking will happen. But we'll see it when it comes up regularly and we'll put a stop to it.
Don't forget, characters now all have hooks. Some of the characters know stuff about your character that YOU DO NOT KNOW!
It's fun! Let's roll with it.